Life is a mystery to be
celebrated and not an problem to be solved. Mere existence is not life.
Strangely people are only somehow existing, somehow vegetating, somehow
surviving. For survival, bread, clothes and shelter are
enough, but the grandeur and the splendor of life will be missing.
The inner sky of such people will remain dark with no stars.
One can give only that which he
has. one cannot give that which he does not have. The one who has full of
joy will share the same joy where ever he goes. The one
who has frustrations and depressions can only share the
stink of his miseries wherever he goes. Such people are
not wanted by anyone. But he who spread fragrance of love and joy is
wanted everywhere. To him success happens naturally. The secret is to
equip oneself with what is wanted in the world by people. Fill yourself
with unconditional joy and happiness.
This is the success formula for
any meaningful husband and wife relationship. What appears to be a miracle
in the beginning of a marriage, by and by fades away and replaced by
bitterness and insecurity simply because of this aspect of joyfulness
absent in both of them. The tragedy begins when the husband or wife expect
the other to understand himself or herself and be a sourse of his or her
joy. Instead of 'giving' happiness they both 'expect' happiness from the
other and this is the cause for the eventual sorrow in such a
wonderful relationship. When the husband and wife live a life where both
are a sourse of joy to each other, where both are 'givers' and not 'beggars'of
happiness,such a life would coplement each other to grow socially,
materially, professionally and spiritually.
thy own self
Quote for the
' While it is important to REMEMBER your wife's birthday, it is
even more important to FORGET her age '